Dear Black Men who complain about women all day !
(yea niggas aint reading all that and that's the problem)
Ok word of advise... being independent doesn't mean that you DON'T need a man. Accountability in all of it's counterparts and formats needs to be everyone's focus here. Like if a woman can provide for herself in totality why would she, if she's integratable of course, deal with anyone on a partnership level who cannot turn her force into much more by doubling it's power which could only happen IF and WHEN this partner has yokes that are equal to hers. It is not ego stroking egotistical or mean for someone who runs big businesses to know that they cannot mesh with someone who only has to capacity to work as an employee in said big business. You cannot want me to be grateful that you are giving me an extra $300 today because it's Tuesday, but I'm taking the trash out. I don't want the 3 dollars I want the gesture of chivalry. But if we're gonna talk money... $300 is easy to come by when your'e not focused on money and your currency flows.. it's not snobbish for money to be nothing to someone (even if they don't have money)... Think about how you operate especially if you're trying to deal with someone who is "self made"... Just because they respect themselves as an entrepreneur doesn't mean that they don't respect their clientele... they just might not vibe with your thought patterns and processes of manifestation. For example you going to the casino every other day or shooting dice etc blowing thousands on cars and shoes and clothes, partying etc vs investing that $300 into her business so that she can turn it into $3300 legal money is a betrayal to her and if you can't understand how it is without further explanation then this woman is out of your league.. Check your own temperature before you wanna criticize a woman. For instance, I don't just eat Cheesecake Bistro because you picked it up today... I had you pick it up because I'm working. Yall so used to women who eat McDonalds and shop cheap or don't provide for thier children on their own or whatever use you for luxury things. But if I take myself to Texas De Brazil regularly whyyy would I allow you to feed me McDonalds if I don't eat that EVER ! This is where you have to understand that you are reaching out of your league and beyond your energetic levels. The whole entire "that's why you don't have a man" shit is whack and weak. Just be real... the women who can give everything that they are asking for aren't what you're used to, It's what you're begging for, not what you can handle. Then you go back to your mental space and find a woman with a regular 9 to 5 and complain because her goals aren't to do more. My nigga... My boy... :My KING you gotta be worth more. I can afford the table and I'm not gonna settle for less than the marble that's on top of it because of your potential when your willpower and the fruits of your labor aren't the kind for my basket. What would be nice, and beautiful, submission worthy even, is the gesture and proper execution of what I truly need as a woman. Not you equating my drive and success to an ego problem that you're ultimately just projecting because the ego problem is your own. You're annoyed with yourself and therefore incompatible with ANY woman like me.
Signed,
An Independent Black Woman !
